The problem here is that we put the girl in the “girlfriend bucket” and everyone else in the “friend bucket”. To get more relaxed with girls, we need to start putting them in the “friend bucket” too. Try this: Make a conscious decision to smile, talk, and interact with girls in the same way you would with a stranger. Don’t try to be funny, smart, or attractive. Does this mean that you can’t have flirty interaction with a girl you’re attracted to? No, this isn’t what this is about. This is about not trying to do everything differently just because you’re attracted to someone. Trying too much is a surefire way to mess up.
Here are 6 signs that you’re being weird when talking to girls: Being too nice,Being too polite,Being too cocky,Being cold,Trying to be smart,Trying to be confident. Just treat the girl like everyone else and be friendly. Down the road, when you know there’s a chemistry between you, you can start considering that girl as a potential girlfriend. 4. How to tell if a girl likes you
Here are some of the more common signs I’ve seen that tells if she’s got a crush on you. She’s laughing at your jokes even if they’re bad, She added you on social media and likes your posts (Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram),She told her friends and family about you,She’s teasing you in a playful or flirty manner,She’s holding eye contact with you for a longer time than normal,She touches you when you talk, She seems extra shy when you hang out with her, She gives you more attention than others, Click here to read all 42 signs to tell if a girl likes you.
5. The mistake of trying to prove that you’re worthy of her
Most guys make the mistake of trying to qualify themselves to the girl. They’re thinking: “What should I say to make her like me?”
It’s an unattractive mindset because it puts her on a pedestal. All the cool things about you become repulsive if you use them to “prove you’re worthy”.
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Then I can focus on finding out if she’s worthy of my standards. You do this by simply making normal back-and-forth conversation. But your underlying purpose in the conversation is to figure out if YOU like her. When you focus on this, you will also feel more confident talking to her.
